About fourteen years ago in a town called Puerto Escondido, Mexico, a seasoned Bible translator sat a group of young language interns down and told us a story that I will never forget. Our linguistic internships were drawing to a close, and he was one of the last translators we would hear from. At that point in my life, I was anguishing over what my next step should be. I had just graduated from Bible college. Though raised on a mission field, my parents had moved back to the States and I did not know where to go or what to do. I did not know where I fit or belonged. My four years of college in America had made it very clear to me that this was not home, but Peru was not home either. And although I loved the great commission and loved language, my internship had actually shown me that translation was not in the cards for me. I knew that I wanted to do God’s will for me, but had no idea what that was. I had it in my head that His will was a super specific thing, and that life would be so miserable if I somehow missed it.

And so I sat there, at the end of an internship, about to come back to the States as an adult, out of college, not knowing where to go, what to do, or even who I was. I felt like I was suffocating under the weight of the future.

I was in that head space when this translator began to talk. He read to us from the gospel of Matthew. “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Mt. 11:28-30.

After reading those words, he paused and told us that he had been working on translating that particular passage into an indigenous language in his village when he and his language helpers came to a standstill over a word that did not exist in their language. It was the word “easy.” In their language there was no word to express the concept of easy. Imagine that. But they needed to find something that could convey the same meaning to the people, in spite of not having the actual word. They prayed about it, talked about it, and in time, an idea came to him. Though his people group was not familiar with the term easy, they were very familiar with a yoke and with beasts of burden. They went and spoke to a man who worked with yokes and asked him what would make a particular yoke work efficiently, or be less difficult/hard for the animal. The man responded that you have to know the shape of their shoulders. You make a yoke that fits the shape of their shoulders.


They went back and translated that passage. It reads like this: “Take my yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For I know the shape of your shoulders and my burden is light.”

In that stuffy little room in Puerto Escondido, that man spoke life over us. He told us that God knows the shape of our shoulders. He told us that we did not need to be anxious about “what if we miss God’s perfect will.” “You are not big enough or important enough to thwart God’s will for your life. Just rest.” I cannot tell you how those words settled into my soul. I still carry them today.

I serve a God who knows the shape of my shoulders. He knows my past, every complicated part. He knows my future. He understands every move of my heart, and He loves me.

God is not a cruel taskmaster, beating us to get more work out of us. He is not a mean God who hides His will and then punishes us for missing it. He is kind. He is good. I have a little plaque in my kitchen that says “Find rest , Oh my soul, in God alone.” Because I forget that. I forget that He said He is gentle. I forget that He gives rest. I forget that His burden is light.

I needed to hear that so many years ago, and I needed to hear it again today. Maybe someone else did, too. “He knows the shape of your shoulders.” Come to Him, you who are weary and burdened, and He will give you rest.





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10 thoughts on “The Shape of Your Shoulders

  1. Well done Amberlee. I really like that analogy he used. I will remember this. Truly the Father is so far beyond us we can never hope to be in a place where He isn’t. 🙂 No matter how much we think we will miss Him He is powerful enough to speak through any situation. After our experiences we have learned that if God wants to communicate something to you He will and you won’t miss it. That doesn’t mean you won’t ignore it, for that is an act of free will, but you will never miss what He is is saying. A lifetime of hearing has taught us this.

    Lovely post Amberlee.

    Homer Les
    Uncompromising Faith


  2. Wow, well told, and such a blessing to read. Best thing I’ve read all month. Praise God He keeps things simple and uses us best when in him we rest!


  3. Wow, profound words and spirit empowered insights! I too am an MK and getting a chance to witness how you responded is so encouraging….and similar. I’m a Grandpa now, but God has been amazingly faithful, a kind compassionate shepherd to me and to my whole family. But I remember a time when my future was cloudy and filled with doubt….what do you have for me, Lord? Ephesians 2:10 has been so encouraging…knowing that you and I “are His worksmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them”. So he not only know the shape of our shoulders, but he has also already prepared the good works designed specifically for us to do….what a relief!! Thank you for your posts…i don’t follow too many blogs…blessed that I discovered yours. Keep up the great writing. You have a gift….we’re the recipients! Bless you!

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  4. Thank you Amberlee.

    My sister had an emergency c-section Sunday at 28 weeks pregnant and my nephew didn’t survive. 💔

    God has been encouraging me with this scripture. This post was for me.

    Thank you, Carisa

    Sent from my iPhone. Please excuse the brevity and any random errors.



  5. I never heard this before, and it’s so beautiful, Amber! I remember when you were struggling between your Peruvian & American lives, and wondering where you would fit in. And your post makes it clear that the only place that we will really fit in, is in God’s arms.


  6. So encouraging, dear friend. I needed this reminder today. Keep writing, God is using your words to encourage His Church. I’m so thankful for you💕


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